You can see when something’s holding them back. You just can’t see what.
A live workshop for sports parents. Understand what’s really going on inside your child, and what sets them free to play their best and love their sport.
The hardest game they play is the one you never see.
What shapes them
Beneath every game, your child carries quiet questions and fears that shape how they feel and how they play.
What you notice
These questions and fears drive the nerves, the self-doubt, the holding back, and the reaction to setbacks you’ve seen in your child.
How you feel
You’ve likely found yourself wondering, what do they need and how can I help? Especially when the drive home is tense or quiet.
Once you see the inner game, everything starts to shift.
Most help works on the surface. This reaches what’s underneath.
Beneath the Game is a live workshop where you’ll understand what’s really driving how your child plays, feels and competes, so you know how to help, at the source.
Understand your child
- —The real reason behind the nerves and self-doubt, and why it isn’t what most people think
- —Where real confidence comes from, and why the usual kind is so shaky
- —What makes a mistake linger, and why they can be so hard on themselves
The part you play
- —Why your relationship is the foundation, the thing no coach can give
- —How to help them hold a steadier sense of who they are, beyond results
- —What they need most in the hard moments, like a tough game, selection, or injury
What you’ll walk away with
- —A new lens and simple framework for what to do before, during and after games
- —What the best performers do with their minds, and how to pass it on
- —A relationship that brings you closer, on and off the field
And the drive home becomes a place of connection instead of tension.
A small shift in you. A bigger one in them.
“I told my daughter her father and I have no expectations of her, that we only care about her enjoying herself. I could tell she was really taking it in. Since then she hasn’t fallen apart after mistakes, and she’s been better than ever!”
“I tried what you said and stopped giving advice after games. I just let her lead. For a while we didn’t talk about the game at all, but after a few weeks she started asking me what I thought!”
“We’ve noticed a marked difference in his presence on the field. He’s finally coming to believe in himself. He has a very different game voice now. One you pay attention to.”
“His guidance for parents in supporting their children’s journey is invaluable.”
Hi, I’m Nick, and I’m sport obsessed.
I do this work to help young athletes play free, find their best and love their sport, and to give parents the insight that helps.
I’ve spent thirteen years in sport, coaching teams and athletes, and far longer playing it myself, so I know the ups and downs of the journey from the inside. I studied sports management and started out in community sport development, then trained in integrative psychotherapy to understand the inner game more deeply. Since then, I’ve run workshops for more than two thousand young athletes and their parents.
Beneath the Game is how I share what I’ve seen work, so sport becomes something that brings you and your child closer, which to me matters as much as anything that happens on the field.
“Nick Marr is a leader in this field. He clearly articulated to parents how to create a framework that encourages positive environments where players can grow and develop.”
In their words.
“It was a very insightful workshop for me. You gave us a very practical approach to the reality of sport and how we could cope with that.”
“I was truly impressed and inspired by the parent session. I found it very beneficial for me and my son.”
“Nick is a fantastic presenter and the session provided good reminders on how to best support our daughter throughout the season. Thank you Nick!”
“They played like a different team. The Nick Marr effect strikes again! They mentioned how different it felt to play and how much they enjoyed the game.”
“I didn’t worry about anything while playing. I played free and played my best in ages. Thanks Nick, you really helped.”
“His mindset has totally changed, he is a different person and player.”
“He makes the psychological side of the game tangible, pragmatic and enjoyable. Universally well received across both the female and male spaces.”
“Unreal. I’ve done many workshops, and by far, this was the most engaged I’ve been. Very inspiring and eye-opening!”
“Thanks Nick, enjoyed how you provided different perspectives to communicate and support our teenagers, and also reinforced what we’re doing right.”
“You really helped make a noticeable difference and impact on the team. The positive behaviour and resilience is amazing. You have helped this team including myself to grow and shine, and believe. Thank you!”
“I loved Nick’s parent session. You can feel how committed he is to his message.”
“I’m feeling more confident and relaxed going into games now, much more joy and freedom. Thank you Nick!”
Join us for the evening.
Wherever you’re at, regular matches, finals, trials or off-season, what you take from it helps.
Same content, pick your night.
Your questions answered
Yes, all of them. Whether it’s a field, a court, a track or a pool, this is about your child, and what they feel when they play and compete.
Parents of junior athletes aged roughly 10 to 18.
Every level, local, club, community, representative or elite. And every kind of player, whether yours is ambitious and competitive or simply loves to play. Playing free is playing your best, and loving it.
Now’s a good time. Wherever you’re at, regular matches, finals, trials or off-season, what you take from it helps. The sooner you understand what’s going on for your child, the more of their season they get to enjoy.
It’s live on Zoom. Come as you are, listen in or join the conversation. The Q&A is there if you want it, but joining in is always up to you.
Yes. One ticket covers your household, so both parents or carers can join live or watch the replay together, and get on the same page.
You’ll get the full replay, yours to keep forever. If life gets in the way, you won’t miss a thing.
No, the live workshop is for you. Afterwards, your child gets their own guide, How to Play Free, so the ideas reach them once you’ve had the chance to take them in first.
Not at all. It starts from the opposite place: you love your child and want the best for them. Pressure comes from many directions, their own expectations, coaches, selection, the game itself. Your relationship is simply one place you can offer something steadying, and that’s where we focus. No guilt, just clarity.
Come along, and if it’s not what you hoped, email us within 14 days for a refund. The replay’s yours either way.
Yes. Clubs, academies and associations can give their whole parent community access. Get in touch and we’ll sort it out.
Privacy Policy
This Privacy Policy explains how we collect, use, store and disclose your personal information when you visit our website, register for a workshop, or otherwise deal with us.
PlayFree is operated by Nicholas Marr (ABN 20 232 935 535), trading as PlayFree, based in New South Wales, Australia. In this policy, “we”, “us” and “our” refer to PlayFree. “You” refers to the person whose personal information we handle.
We are committed to protecting your privacy and handling your personal information in line with the Australian Privacy Principles (APPs) under the Privacy Act 1988 (Cth).
What we collect
We only collect personal information that we reasonably need. This may include:
- Your name and email address, when you register for a workshop or contact us.
- Payment information, when you purchase a workshop. Payments are processed by our payment provider (Stripe); we do not store your full card details on our own systems.
- Information you choose to share with us, such as questions you ask, feedback you give, or details you raise during a live session.
- Technical information collected automatically when you visit our website, such as your IP address, browser type and general usage data, through our hosting and any analytics tools.
How we collect it
We collect personal information directly from you when you register, pay, email us, or take part in a session. We also collect some technical information automatically through our website and the third-party tools we use to run it.
Why we use it
We use your personal information to:
- Deliver the workshop you registered for, including sending you the joining link, the replay, and any guides or resources.
- Process your payment and issue confirmation.
- Communicate with you about your registration, and send related updates or follow-up resources.
- Respond to your questions and requests.
- Improve our workshops, resources and website.
- Meet our legal and record-keeping obligations.
Who we share it with
We do not sell your personal information. We share it only with trusted service providers who help us run PlayFree, and only as needed. These include:
- Stripe — payment processing.
- Systeme.io — checkout, registration and email delivery.
- Zoom — hosting the live online workshop.
- Google Workspace — email and document storage.
- Netlify — website hosting.
We may also disclose your information where required by law.
Overseas disclosure
Some of the service providers above store or process data outside Australia, including in the United States. By using our services, you acknowledge that your personal information may be handled overseas. We take reasonable steps to use reputable providers that protect your information.
Cookies and tracking
Our website may use cookies and similar technologies to help it function and to understand how it is used. You can control cookies through your browser settings. Where we use any tracking or analytics that requires your consent, we will ask for it.
How we store and protect it
We take reasonable steps to protect your personal information from misuse, loss, and unauthorised access, including using secure, reputable third-party providers. No method of transmission or storage is completely secure, but we work to keep your information safe.
How long we keep it
We keep your personal information only as long as we need it for the purposes described above, or as required by law. When we no longer need it, we take reasonable steps to delete or de-identify it.
Your rights
You can ask us to:
- Access the personal information we hold about you.
- Correct it if it is inaccurate or out of date.
- Delete it, where we are able to.
- Stop sending you marketing emails, by using the unsubscribe link or contacting us.
To make a request, email us at nick@toplayfree.com. If you are not satisfied with how we handle a privacy concern, you can contact the Office of the Australian Information Commissioner (OAIC) at oaic.gov.au.
Children’s privacy
Our workshops are designed for parents and other adults. We do not knowingly collect personal information from children through our registration process. Where a resource is intended for a child, it is provided to the registering parent or guardian to share at home. If you believe we have inadvertently collected a child’s information, please contact us and we will delete it.
Data breaches
If a data breach occurs that is likely to result in serious harm, we will respond in line with the Notifiable Data Breaches scheme, including notifying affected individuals and the OAIC where required.
Changes to this policy
We may update this policy from time to time. The current version will always be available on this page, with the “last updated” date shown above.
Contact us
For any privacy question or request, email nick@toplayfree.com.
Terms & Conditions
These terms apply when you register for, pay for, or take part in a PlayFree workshop, and when you use our website. By registering, you agree to these terms.
PlayFree is operated by Nicholas Marr (ABN 20 232 935 535), trading as PlayFree, based in New South Wales, Australia. In these terms, “we”, “us” and “our” refer to PlayFree, and “you” refers to the person registering.
What you’re registering for
The Parent Game is a live, online workshop for parents of junior athletes. Your registration includes:
- Access to the live 90-minute online workshop on your chosen date.
- The full replay of the session.
- A take-home parent guide.
- A companion guide for your child.
We may make reasonable changes to the content, format or timing of a session. If we need to reschedule or cancel a session, we will let you know and offer you an alternative date or a refund.
Price and payment
The workshop is $29 per family. One registration covers your household, so both parents are welcome to attend live or watch the replay. Payment is made at checkout and processed securely by Stripe. Prices are in Australian dollars and include any applicable taxes unless stated otherwise.
Delivery
The workshop is delivered live online via Zoom. After registering, you will receive your joining details by email. The replay and any resources are sent to the email address you provide, so please make sure it is correct.
Refunds
Come along. If it’s not what you hoped, email us within 14 days of your session at nick@toplayfree.com and we’ll refund you.
This is in addition to any rights you have under the Australian Consumer Law, which are not excluded by these terms.
Using the workshop and resources
Your registration is for you and your household only. The joining link, replay, guides and resources are provided for your personal use and must not be shared, forwarded, posted, resold or redistributed to anyone outside your household. Sharing your access or reproducing the materials is a breach of these terms, and we may suspend or cancel your access without refund if it occurs.
Intellectual property
All workshop content, materials, slides, guides and resources are the intellectual property of PlayFree and Nicholas Marr. You’re welcome to use them for your own family. You may not copy, reproduce, record, republish or distribute them without our written permission.
An important note on what this is
The Parent Game is an educational workshop. It is not therapy, psychological treatment, or medical advice, and it is not a substitute for professional support.
If you or your child are struggling with mental health or any clinical concern, please speak with a professional, such as your GP, a psychologist, or a relevant support service. Nothing in the workshop or our resources should be relied on as a diagnosis or treatment.
Liability
We deliver our workshops in good faith and with care. To the extent permitted by law, we are not liable for any indirect or consequential loss arising from your use of the workshop, resources or website, and our total liability to you will not exceed the amount you paid for your registration. Nothing in these terms limits any rights you have under the Australian Consumer Law that cannot lawfully be excluded.
Privacy
We handle your personal information in line with our Privacy Policy.
Governing law
These terms are governed by the laws of New South Wales, Australia, and you agree to the jurisdiction of the courts of that state.
Changes to these terms
We may update these terms from time to time. The current version will always be available on this page, with the “last updated” date shown above.
Contact us
For any question about these terms or your registration, email nick@toplayfree.com.